I so agree with WePow. I know I love my T and I enjoy every session (well, to the degree one can 'enjoy' some deep painful work). I count on her to provide what she does best. I'm very attached to my twice weekly sessions (trying to cut back to once a week because the cost is killing me)

I'm not resisting the feelings I have for her but I know they are for that one place only - at her office. But I guess the same could be said about others whom we love and cherish - maybe we see them only occasionally meeting for hikes in the forest or whatever.

And each person in our lives offers something different and wonderful. We must try hard not to compare.