Thank you Evening and With or Without You for sharing your stories. I am 35 and I am still a virgin. I have experienced stigma for my status at 3 different gynecologists' offices. I have a health condition that has made it a necessity to see a gynecologist for the first time.

I also have made the choice to wait until I am married to have sex. I am not a prude or too religious. I believe that I have to do what's best for me.

Butterflies and Bats tell him exactly how you feel.