I think it becomes the most frustrating when ppl who "SHOULD" understand, don't. Their education can't always be our responsibility. Family, especially, think they know all about us...why, they saw us grow up didn't they? Hogwash. They are fumbling because they are so ignorant. If you wish, you can slowly repeat the same responses, hoping they will eventually "get it." But by being consistent in your responses you will reassure yourself of the truth. If no one else IRL will say it, then at least you can. ((hugs))