It is difficult for all members here who never had real nuturing growing up, to accept that any T could care so much. IMO it would also be difficult to understand that there is such a thing as love, and real caring from safe people.

T's fall under that category, imo... ppl who really do care, and can be patient and understanding. Sometimes patients push the limits, push against the caring, to "prove" that it isn't real... yet they find it is real. A good T understands the testing that must take place by you who have DID. You have to try the waters, you have to make sure you can trust.

It's a new concept to all parts of everyone, sometimes.... trust.