T has been frustrated with me, and he actually did get angry at me once. And like you, my BIGGEST trigger is someone being angry at me.

It was actually a really good learning experience...that someone can be angry at still love me, that they can experience that (valid) emotion and not use it to hurt me, that we can get angry at each other and move on with no left over resentments.

It's a good thing to talk about if you're feeling scared of it, for sure.