You are not the worst mom in the world. Sometimes Tough Love is what it takes. I know that 's what it took for me to heal the relationship with my parents. Now that I don't live at home and don't see them every day we are getting along much much better. Don't beat yourself up for this it sounds that he needs a big boost in the butt to get himself in gear. You are doing what you need for your mental health.

jbug