i am from India, a going thru a torture of a seperation from my marriage of 6 yrs. i was with an emotional abuser who squeezed every ounce of worth and capabiities and made me sacrifice my family friends and career all in the name of love and working out this relationship. i hope to seek help and advice from like minded sufferer, whostill seeks to prolong the pain for me by avoiding the divorce procedures and making me guilty of all the things i've left behind.