I hate my monsters, I want to not hate them cos I think they get bigger every time i fight with them. To embrace them is not easy when you have a life time of not doing so. I figure that accepting them as part of me, as they are. I need to learn that all my parts are a part of me, and why should i love one of them less just because they are angry or monsters. I really struggle with trying to accept them and accept they are part of who we are. We are trying to find ways for them to be around without being so distructive. I give others inside time, time to play, time to work, time to have fun, time to do whatever they need to do. Is time we tried to give time for them too, but... I have to say... they get time, but I make the rules. Doesn't always work out for me or us, but we are trying all the same. Don't know if this answers what you were asking, it is just what we are trying to work on just now.

Take care
Jabe