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Old Jul 18, 2011, 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted by protector1973 View Post
do not join the game

intrigue is a sociapaths tool, resist the temptation to compete with a seductive sociapath, to outsmart him, psychoanalyze , or even banter with him. in addition to reducing yourself to his level, you would be distracting yourself from what is really important, which is to protect yourself. martha stoute the sociapath next door
I think this right here is a good example of why antisocials are not getting the research into the help they need...media and people who do not understand or try to understand the dysfuntion of the disorder-what it was/is like to have the disorder, ect-are simply saying society needs to be rid of them, or they are useless to society...jeez, blah blah blah; if your motive is to compete with the antisocial...I would ask you to take a look at yourself, why you wish to compete with one, sounds like an unresolved issue.

Arrrgg I hate how I am addressing you on this;

ok, not everyone may be able to tolerate these individuals....I can't stand anything to do with politics, and thats why I am thankful for people who care and are involved in all of that so I don't have to be but maybe I could ask you a few questions so you can see why I'm coming from this perspective....

1. Assuming the pathology is due to abuse, then let me ask you this:

How can we expect someone who has never been shown true care/love by the two sole people that are responsible for the child (parents) to know how to give a **** about care/being cared for? I feel that an antisocial who has become this way due to abuse has had to become for oneself everything that he/she ever needs, because as a young child they were shown that people suck? If you were in a constant state of abuse I'm fairly certain you would withdraw from the world in one form or another as well; And also, I think they do give a **** about caring, because it impacts what and how they can and cannot express things because other people care. lol

2. So they have apathy...I feel you already "lower to their level" by returning that apathy. (Not that I condone that statement at all because it disregards what they have been through and in saying that you suggest you've been through the same?) Is it safe to say one cannot fight apathy with apathy? o0;

3. Assuming the disorder is biological....why not research into what's causing it, find a cure? The more you talk with them, the more neuropsychologists may be able to figure out where things are going wrong...who knows;

In conclusion, I think intrigue is perfect to better our and their understanding of what's going on; I think the reason I attacked this is that it started to cross into hopelessness due to the older generation that studied what it could, got as far as it did, then got exploited in variuos forms and given up on. I'm trying to get as many people as possible to question the "why" behind reasons therapy is not working instead of coming to the conclusion-like most textbooks, that therapy of any form is useless.

No giving up yo;
If you do not agree protector-I would hope that you continue to post so I can keep track of why/where this hopelessness is coming from;

Yo mick, I'm trying to create a new theory, or maybe even just a perspective, called "Apathy Theory' (or perspective, whatev) so I invite you to tear it apart or correct me..I'm only 21 I got years to refine stuff lol, I'm curious to see what you have to say about it; I feel weird speaking on behalf of you all seeing as I do not have this disorder;

Take care and thanks,
-obj