So I recently discovered that the woman I've been with for the last 7 years secretly watches porn once I leave for work; gay, lesbian, you name it. I guess this wouldn't bother me so much if I didn't feel like our physical relationship wasn't so sporadic, sometimes 'dry spells' of +3-4 months. When I mentioned my dissatisfaction with our lack of sex, she says that she 'just doesn't have a strong sex drive' which seems to be contrary to someone who watches porn. Am I reading to far into this?