My house is tidy and things are put away. As far as cleaning - well, the food prep areas and the bathroom are clean. The rest has a generous layer of dust, and the floors need sweeping, etc.
I used to be a fiend about keeping my house spotless. I'd be up at 3 in the morning cleaning the tops of the kitchen cupboards. Ridiculous, I was driving myself and my family crazy. In 1981 I went to a TA weekend and learned that I don't have to be perfect. So I gave it up.
Now I live alone, and it's clean enough for me, so it's ok.