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Originally Posted by lastyearisblank
Oh that's mean! Obviously she was feeling ignored and was annoyed it was going to take effort to get your attention. There is a much much much nicer way to model and communicate it if she didn't like you wearing headphones. I think it's expecting too much when a T puts their raw feelings out there and wants the client to sort it out. That would make me feel very pressured, directly or indirectly.
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Actually, she wasn't mean at all. Like I mentioned earlier, she barely showed a response. I just can sense things very well.
And when she admitted she was annoyed, she did it in the nicest way a person can say that. I actually felt very good at the time and was surprised how well I took it. But, even after all these weeks, it's still eating at me. My session Wednesday feels like a make it or break it kind of session. Either she can really convince me that I can take risks with her or she won't.