Cats, she says that you aren't ready to work on your flashbacks yet. I would guess you aren't ready because you aren't doing serious therapy with this woman. How can you focus on getting better and doing serious work when your T isn't healthy? I don't think that this relationship can be repaired because this woman has a lot of work to do. You deserve a decent therapist. You have already had dysfunctional family who didn't serve you well. Why are you settling with a dysfunctional therapist who can't serve you well either?