I'm one of the many who could never have an orgasm through plain old-fashioned sex. The only way I can get off is through masturbation. I get very close to orgasm when I'm getting oral sex, but a lot of action has to be done...I'd go into detail but I don't think too many people would want to hear that.

Anyways, masturbation is how I get off. It is a very natural and healthy thing to do. Also, you could do that in front of the hubby and it may even turn him on! Some guys like that.

Also you could try some adult films. That may increase your arousal, also. You could also try exploring each other through touching. Tell your hubby to just touch you or kiss you. No sex...just explore quite a bit. Me and my bf do that quite a bit.

Good luck.