It does take a LONG time to rebuild trust, especially if you've been betrayed and left by a former T. I totally hear you on that. My 1st T dumped me without any prior notice, just 1 night--I'm done with you. That just destroyed me and I understand why you have trouble trusting this new T. It may take a long time for him to prove himself trustworthy. I think you handled it well. I'm glad T has admitted he was wrong. I hope that allows you to see he may be trustworthy after all. I have a new T now, and I am starting to trust her just a little. She is completely trustworthy and I know that, but it is still taking time for me to b uild up trust. So i understand.