Hi, js and welcome!

I agree with DarkEyes and Davey. Something you can do right now is to educate yourself on the illness of bipolar. There are some excellent books out there. A list is included at the top of this forum as well as on the Book Reviews tap at the top of this screen. They may help you identify some of the symptoms your husband is having as well as help you understand the illness.

Good luck to you hon...this has to be so hard for you. Come talk to us anytime. There are wonderful people here who will help all they can.