Keeping in mind of course that I am Mrs Avoidance talking... sittingatwatersedge instead of facing the challenges of life..... but now I'm trying to change it while I still can.....

If a person has worked with many therapists & they've all failed,
or has worked with several therapists & all have failed,
one may understandably wonder whether one must go it alone from that point forwards;
but if as the subject line says, a therapist fails,
isn't that a pretty small population of data points from which to draw a conclusion?
Is it at all possible that going it alone from that one point forward could just be a giving in to distrust and avoidance, resulting in a failure to try again?