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Old Jul 19, 2011, 08:37 AM
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For one thing, if you DO have to move out (why can't HE?) he can't tell you that you cannot move to your parents house --- If he wants you to stay closer, then tell HIM to get you an apartment and pay the RENT! It's a shame that he had to pull this nonsense AFTER you had children.

Don't let him scare you. I doubt that any court will DEMAND that you NOT move to your parents house. If he wants to be closer to the kids, then HE can move too!!

I wouldn't count on "fixing" things since it's apparent that he doesn't want to fix them. I think I would consult an attorney about the kids & what rights both of you have, since you're not married. You'll need to know EXACTLY what is expected of you.

Try to make the split as cordial as possible -- these kids don't need to hear you fighting any more. It's going to be hard enough on them as it is. Best of luck & God bless. I'm really sorry this is happening. Hugs, Lee
Thanks for this!
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