You have two children, and he's prepared to take their home from them? The guy's being a jerk about this. Really, he is the one who should move, particularly since he's the one who instigated the separation. He has no right to turn around and tell you to move your children and yourself out of the family home. It's the FAMILY home, and when he's gone you will be the one carrying the burden of family, caring for the kids. If he's forcing you through emotional bullying to leave the home, then YOU are the wronged party, not him, and you can move wherever you want to. It makes sense that a mother of two who is being forced into homelessness would go to her parents. He does not have a leg to stand on.

I understand given the shock that you may not feel up to fighting him on this, but if you can find the emotional energy then it's worth sticking it out. He has NO right to do this to you... I'm ever so sorry you've got to go through this.

Hopefully he'll come to his senses at least enough not to make you three homeless. If he does I doubt any judge will be sympathetic to him.

If he's prepared to do this to you and your children, you have to ask yourself is it worth fighting to make the thing work. I'm not saying he's a jerk all the time, but certainly for now that's what he's being. Again, I have to say how sorry I am. It's up to you, you can either stay where you are and fight for the house, or go to your parents. Both options are completely your perogative, and he has no right to threaten you with court if you go to your family. How dare he still dictate your actions when he's the one abandoning you and your children? His behaviour is beyond outrageous, it's vile and disgusting. I think he needs to know that. I have no sympathy for him, and doubt anybody would.

Your parents may be a source of support for you and your children. Again, how dare he demand that you not avail yourself of your family at precisely the moment that he, your partner, and the father of your children, unceremoniously dumps you all? He sounds like a control freak and a bully. You can do better than that.