hi...i too was recently diagnosed with borderline personally , i was relieved a bit when i herd this since so many things made sense after hearing about it. just want you to know though that your diagnosis is not a fatal one..there is help , and now that you are aware of your " flaws or quirks" you can actually do something to probably lessen the severity of them..never give up hope sometimes thats all we have...and i am certain that there is someone out there who is perfect for you...maybe next time you wont have a relationsh!t..lol