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Old Jul 19, 2011, 09:26 PM
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Originally Posted by tigergirl View Post
Mine has never called but emails; and sometimes just seeing there is an email can freak me out. I think because there is always that fear that they are going to leave; that what they are going to say (phone, text, email) will be that - I've had enough of you, I can't do this anymore and like you said that part about being a nuisance.

Have you talked about that fear before; that she will leave?
Oh yeah, one time I almost had a meltdown calling her multiple times in one day accusing her of wanting to terminate me. We had an extra session that week in which she emphasized that she had no intention of terminating me. I asked her lots of questions about it and she definitely reassured me. But still, there is the fear. So, I'm guessing that somewhere in my childhood I was emotionally abandoned and it's being played out now with my T.