Geeeeeeeesh I don't know how this happens to me...All I do is make the breakfast and try to make sure AJ gets to work.. As everyone knows, it took a long time for him to be employed.. He has been told if he is late one more time he is fired........ So common sense would be to make sure one gets to work...
AJ and his girlfriend "the drama queen" fights over the pills she is addicted for every night till 3 am... ALL I do is make the breakfast.. AJ didn't answer his phone wake up call so I go upstairs and his girlfriend is all dressed for work sitting at the table and she snaps at me that AJ needs a few snooze minutes.. I snap back and said he doesn't need to "snooze" he needs to get up for work.... She gets snappy again and I snap back, well you make enough money you can make his car payments and support him should he lose his job..
OOOOOOO I hurt her feelings and AJ gets up and vents at me.... I told him to stopppppppppp....I told him his job is his re sponsibility.. His girl is his responsibility.. and He need not blame me for their problems.. Good trick on her to turn the table on me.. Get the attention on me and off her..
I'm not upset because I am not in the wrong.. Might have been best not to have said what I did... Seems again, the mother in me took over and the only thing I am concerned about is AJ's job........ Her addiction and the fighting every night is not my problem.. I would just like AJ to keep his job....
Something more is wrong with this picture... AS AJ's girlfriend is still upstairs.. She hasn't gone to work.. Looks like she doesn't have to be at work at any certain time....Yet she knows AJ does... She didn't go to work yesterday either.......
JUst talking... I don't even know why because I'm not upset other than the job issue with AJ... Again I need to let go...... His res ponsibility for work.. He can't change her... ANd all of this crap is going to mess up his job... And I will get blamed because I hurt her feelings... I don't even go upstairs or bother them.... ALl I do is make the breakfast, which as of today, has stpped........
In the beginning I thought ooooooooo wow , this looks too good to be true.... and was hearing wedding bells for AJ.......... All I can say now is "all that glitters is not gold"..... Something too good to be true oh darn I forget how that saying goes.. lol.............
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