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Originally Posted by rainbow8
It's strange but I've never worried about Ts terminating me.  I worry about her dying, so that's pretty terminal, though. She's very healthy and about 15 years younger than I am, but that's what I worry about. I know she'd never terminate me. I never worried about that with any of my other Ts either. Why do people think their Ts would terminate them? |
For me I think it's a issue I come to therapy with. I was probably abandoned emotionally or felt diminished and inconsequential and therefore I project that onto my T. If someone sees my true self, they will be so disgusted that they will leave me. Therefore my life has been about hiding who I am. And in therapy, trying to find the 'real me', brings up these old issues.