Have you tried family counseling. There may still be hope with it if you both are willing to give it a try and be open to what happens in therapy. Good luck and things can get better.
<font color=purple>Peace to you. CQ and the babies.</font color=purple>

<font color=green>"I am beginning to learn that it is the sweet, simple things of life which are the real ones after all."
- Laura Ingalls Wilder
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