The sad thing I look at the T's that failed in accomplishing this with me that it was really a waste of over 10 years & going through some heavy trauma while being with them with NO HELP. Where I would have been if I was where I am now during those trauma's would have been like night & day.... there is just too much of ourselves that we can't recognize without others pointing it out & working with us to HELP US FIND OUT SOLUTION.