Hi Saxon,

I went through hell getting over a woman who treated me like crap half the time. We split in November but started complete no contact in January. I can pretty much say I am over her today, but I am not completely over the relationship and how it went. So I feel ya. One month is not long but often enough time to really start to have feelings for someone; especially if she was as special as you say. These things run their course differently in different people. You just have to get and stay strong for the next one that comes along. At the same time, you will be healthy and ready if she would be open to rekindling things at a later time. I know from experience it can happen. As for "kissing toads". Sometimes you aren't aware they are a toad until several months into things.... My ex had me fooled for a while.