Perna,
thank you all!
I hope you do not mind but we are going to share this with the new T. It is question able if we have had has many T as we have been in recovery. But this site helps us because it has all the wonderfull facts that I have tolded my T from *&^^*^ (use your word of choice)
But if this T is what she says she is this will help us. The Highlight she actually has agreed to met us away from the office and withour safe person. After all this time that does give us hope. We told her that her actions will speak for themselves that we were no longer going to endure just to prove our selfs.
AAHHH! we are just hoping that life has truely changed It seems she was out sorced from a different office so she is as we have asked her to. Learning us not the ten year file that says what others want her to believe.
again thank you for the resource.