I dont really tell my husband much. Little bits, like "T and I went for ice cream today" or "We're working on something really hard." But, not any real details (its so personal anyway, too personal even for my husband to know)... and its just hard to talk about outside of my T's safe space, and my husband probably wouldn't "get it." He has never been in trauma therapy, never had DID, never even had a T even though he IS a T...so I don't expect him to get much.