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I've own him for a long time.

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lol - I suppose you meant "known" him, right?

Very valid fears. How much of a commitment is he expecting at this point? Does he know that you're scared?

You know, if it feels right, then you won't be scared. You'll WANT the commitment. There is a lot to be said for paying attention to your instincts.

But maybe this is also a sign that you're just not ready for a committed relationship yet. Are you working on this with a therapist?