my family is the same way, the exact same phrases. + "drama queen, selfish, and petty"
my favorite that sends me over the edge is "if you stop thinking about it, it won't be a problem - just ignore it and get over it" and the absolute worst one is "your so sensitive quit taking things so to heart."

THEN DON'T SAY THESE THINGS TO ME !!!!!!!!




And the all time favorite is " i understand" when they have no clue !!!!!