"I don't know" (just like when a little kid gets caught doing something he shouldn't

"Whatever"

"I don't care"
All my husbands favorite trigger words he knows makes me madder than anything. He can never make up his own mind & yet he says I am controlling. Someone had to take control or my life is going to fall apart.

The other one is when he is asked a question & doesn't look up the real answer & does he guessing game which he is always wrong......when I tell him I don't trust his answers & I want the papers to prove the information because after 30 years of this I have learned not to believe a word he says. He never lets me know where the information is filed so I can get the real information, I have learned to force him to get all the paperwork so either he or I can read for real the information that is needed.

Several years ago when my Mother was first Dx'ed wih cancer I would call her every night. I did't know where the contract for my cell phoe was so I could know what hours were the free ones. Stupidly I listened to his answer & after getting a huge bill that cost me over $500 in one month, I forced him to find the contract so I could know the what my contract really was. He is always that kind of person who says things so convincingly that it is hard to not believe his BS. That was the final straw.....from then on I made him plow through the computer room until he finds what I need. I have finally learned to not trust a thing he says after 30 years.....then he just can't understand why I don't trust him & he gets mad because believe him without proof. GEEZ....I can't imagine why I don't trust him. There have been so many things why I haven't been able to trust him...mostly because he always believes he is always right & hates it when I make him proov it. I have spent so much money because of issus like this, I have given up on trustint hin on anything & he is getting so pissed of because I make him prove he is right. What a difficult way to live...never being able to trust a word your husband says....the only thing I do trust isthat he is not fooling around with anyone else.....I don't think even woman who was married would put up with this junk.. There are many others like this & I feel like i am living with a little boy (I don't mean to offend all you good guys who are out there....I know you have to exist...I just haven't found one yet)
Debie