Hey Aiden,

First off, there's nothing wrong with being gender variant. Some people cross-dress. And some guys like makeup. Who's to say that that's wrong? Be yourself, whatever that might be. You and your sexuality is your own, you should own it and be proud of yourself for who you are.

I am a transgender woman - that is, I was born male, but transitioned to female in my early twenties, and now live my life as my true self - a woman. I did that because I could never feel comfortable with myself as a guy - it was almost as if I had a guy's body but a girl's brain. Now that I'm a girl, I'm much more comfortable with myself. If this is something that you are thinking about, feel free to PM me for more info.

Good luck!