We'd all like to react to getting dumped with class and style in case the woman changed her mind in the future. Emotions do get the best of us though. But all is not lost. The fact that she contacted you on facebook so quickly to tell you the truth is a great thing. It shows she is mature and no shrinking violet when confronting tough issues. She couldn't bare to hurt you at first. But once she got your firm message, she contacted you right away. So there is a good chance she will be the type of woman capable and open to another go around. Or at least being friends to start. My ex flat out told me she could never be friends with someone she dated. She was 7 years old going on 45.