I e-mail with T...I know I'm the first client he's used e-mail with, but I don't know if I'm the only one. I kind of doubt it, since we started using it 4 years ago.

He will only reply if I ask him to using these four specific words (that I now abbreviate)....actually, that's not true. That's how it used to be, but now I can ask for a reply (without those words) and I'll get one.

Sometimes T sends me the most wonderful, perfect e-mails. I treasure those. Sometimes not so much

I don't ask for replies a lot...but I like writing to let him know what's going on. I'm way way dissociative and if I don't let him know things as they're happening, they are just *poof* gone.

I do really like being able to e-mail with him. It makes me FEEL like our relationship exists between sessions. I know intellectually it does, but it's nice to feel it too.