do you think that T's sometimes create situations that will make a client angry or uncomfortable .or create a rupture.

i am just trying to figure out what went on last week.i know i have a huge problem with talking .last week the way my T acted made me feel scared of not talking to her.this is the second time this has happened.the first time was when i had sent her e-mail and she wanted me to stop e- mailing her.i don't understand why she would actively want to make me feel this way.i don't see how it helps me at all .yes she gets the job done .she gets me to give her the information she wants but at what cost?why does she want me to scared of her.

do T really do this or are they really sometimes just that clueless