Well in my experence my old t told me she doesn't get extremely upset with it because she knows that are coping skill and that it takes time to change it but after she has spent time on enough and has given the client the tools. Then she gets alittle upset. My old T was more of I can't get mad or disappointed with the clients unless I have given them the tools and have worked with them to get threw those feelings. Hope this helps just alittle. Take care!!