I've asked my T about this. He said he's "not smart enough" to manufacture a rupture I think that in the course of long-term therapy, things are just going to come up...we're going to hear something in a way T didn't intend, T is going to say something stupid, our issues are going to bump up against whatever it is that T is saying, etc. etc. etc. and ruptures just HAPPEN. I can imagine my T challenging me, but really, not ever *upsetting* me on purpose.

It feels unlikely that just as you are building trust your T would upset you on purpose.