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Originally Posted by TheByzantine
Hello, Jenn1fer82. Normal is subjective. I am uncomfortable when one I think of as a friend calls only when she wants something.
How important is this person to you as a friend? If she if important, do you initiate contact and seek to foster a friendship more in line with what you want?
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When we were close we were like sisters, spoke every day, and saw one another ever other day. We were friends since 7th grade and in our early twenties we grew apart. She started a family with a new husband and child and I was enjoying my college years, dating and enjoying my twenties. It didnt help either when I didnt like her husband at the time and even some jealousy that I lost my bestfriend to him. Well soon enough we stopped talked to one another.
Now that we're 29 years we are very different now and yes I miss the friendship and trust we once had. I wish we can have that friendship again so thats why I would like for her to call me and talk to me but I only hear from her when she wants me to come by for a party that she's having for her family. I begin to wonder why she won't hang out with me at other causal times.