I cannot relate in terms of my husband not liking his work as he has his own business and enjoys what he does. But he does tend to be very withdrawn and often moody at home - probably because of the pressures of running the business.

I can understand your frustration at not knowing why your husband withdraws and I can certainly understand that it leaves you feeling helpless, worried, perhaps even confused.

I can't really offer any concrete advice - but you do have my understanding!