I have a new phrase to add to MY list now -- "I don't want to talk about it."
My sister has been giving me crap, saying vaguely how my emails always seem to say more than I realize they do and that's why people get upset. So, naturally, wanting to know what she means, because it isn't something I see in myself or something I do on purpose, for sure, I asked her to explain what she meant so I could learn from it and do something about it.
Her response? "I'm not into that. We've gone from being productive to counterproductive over this. I don't want to talk about it anymore."
SOOOOOOO, I *still* don't know how I apparently make myself sound when I don't realize I'm sounding some way that will p*ss people off. I asked her to explain so I could learn from it, and I get "I don't want to talk about it."
Candy