Improving - it's great that you know what your T does in RL. I have no idea what my T's lifestyle is. She has shared nothing. But what I do know is how she composes herself and how her personality is so positive and open and giving and friendly. I guess how I model myself after T is to remember her words on how to cope with life - like 'sitting with' the emotions, etc. The thing is - she doesn't just offer the advice - it feels like she follows her own suggestions and I can model that.