
Jul 24, 2011, 06:47 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi ~ I'm sorry you're having to watch all this. But may I say something and I hope it doesn't sound cruel ---- Please DO NOT enable them. If you keep bailing them out of jams, they won't EVER stop their madness!! They know that YOU will always be there --- it's time that you closed the bank. Don't help them anymore.
This might help your son too -- he's got to start making some decisions as to whether or not he wants his children growing up in a madhouse like that!!! I would venture a guess that ANY court would give him sole custody of the children --- and I think HE would be much happier too. But right now he doesn't have any REASON to change things because they can always depend on YOU for help.
This is ONLY up to them to change. Step back and let them do it. I've had to do the SAME THING with my son. At first he was upset, but now he knows why I did it. God bless and please take care of YOU. Hugs, Lee
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