Sometimes people will tell us what's going on and sometimes they won't, I've found. What about writing him a letter, not an email, and just telling him that it is important to you to know what is happening between the two of you, and ask him if something has gone wrong. If it were I, after I wrote how I felt about what's going on I would ask for a reply. It's hard not knowing what's going on and waiting and wondering. I know it could hurt even more what he says (if he answers) or maybe something is going on you are not aware of.
How long have you known him? Just curious here. I know that love can be almost instant sometimes, too.
<font color=purple>Peace to you. CQ and the babies.</font color=purple>

<font color=green>"I am beginning to learn that it is the sweet, simple things of life which are the real ones after all."
- Laura Ingalls Wilder
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