I just started sending emails to T one day and it's been fine with him. I've used it to change apt times, start communication about challenging stuff and to check in. For me it's a nice tool to have as a way to tell him something without having a full conversation about it. Despite it's benifits and that T is very responsive I've seen how written communication can be problamatic and it's not something I like to do every week.

Confidentiality is more on my mind now as I have recently learned that he doesn't always open his postage mail and that I need to mark it "personal and confidential" to make comlete certain it's kept private. Also yeah some things just don't need to be in writing and thats why I'm not even crazy about his notetaking but yet I ramble...