Cats's T has questionable behavior. Sure. But can anyone here really counsel Cats to get another therapist? Cats doesn't want another therapist; she came here for help in understanding her T's behavior and communications. She has reached out to her old therapist for consultation. That old therapist is in the best position to counsel her considering her knows Cats, her therapist, and the profession. I personally don't think it serves Cats well for us to instruct her to get a new therapist or attack her therapist.