I don't expect a relationship to be perfect. I know that at times they can be hard work, but I'm tired of feeling like it has to be a competition to keep your significant others attention. It sucks because I was even in a relationship with a man with two children and they would even bring up ex's in comparison because they realized it would stimulate a reaction. I realize you can't blame a child for such situation, but shoot, you can't win for nothing! I feel like I have to take a superwoman pill to be placed on top priority here!