Hey ya Wisewoman I do not disagree with you but in my case I can cry and do now and then but it's been 5 years of MAJOR THINGS that have hit over and over ..new...just as soon as I crawled out of one nightmare another major thing hit...and it continues..so I would spend my whole day in tears unable to get things done and fight to get what I need if I just cried over everything that was appropriate to cry over