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Jul 25, 2011, 04:24 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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I'm gonna get flamed for this, but I'm going to say it anyway. LOL
It seems to me that it would be very difficult for another person to know exactly WHEN you've had too much to drink TO THE POINT of not being able to make good, sane decisions. Yes, you drank too much and weren't in a place to make the decision of whether to have sex or not --- but how would HE know how far the drunkeness had gone? He may have gotten a certain vibe -- it's hard to say. He was WRONG regardless.
I'm NOT saying that what happened was YOUR FAULT by any means. He should not have made any moves on you at all !! What he did was rotten -- and very selfish!! And it could have had very tragic results, i.e. pregnancy
But since you're having such conflicting feelings about whether to stay mad at him or not --- maybe you should see a counselor about this. He/she could be more objective about this. One thing to your "friends'" benefit is that he's remorseful about it. He SHOULD be -- and I'm glad he feels bad about it!!
It's just that continuing to stay angry is just going to make YOU sick. When you carry that kind of anger around, it can manifest itself in ways that aren't too pretty.  It's OK to forgive him -- but that doesn't mean you have to be "friends" with him anymore. You just need to get rid of this anger, and move on.
Whatever you decide to do, I wish you the very best. Be careful about drinking tho -- it can lead to worse things. God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee
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