he finaly wrote back to me, but he didn't specify anything about "us" he said that he's in dept and he ows his parents money, both of wich i already knew, i'v offered him money just so he can pay off some of his bills, but he won't take it, i probeby wouldn't have taken it either, but then again he reay needs the money, he told my friend that there's a warrent for his arrest cuz he has fines to pay off that he can't afford, i'v known him since june and we hve been dating for2 months (the 10th), when we met there was a really strong bond between us, i'v never trusted anyone like i trust him, i have a lot of trust issues due to my past, i sent him back a really long e-mail, most of it didn't even make sence, i just wish he would let me help him, it's so hard loving someone so much and not being able to be there for them