I'd like to reply to each post but Im on a restricted post deal and can only post according to when i did yesterday. When I say extravagant, I mean it in the sense of what is extravagant to you, the reader, because that word can have many meanings. Extravagant to you may be one thing but to me, its something else. For me, I don't mean pretentious, or showy, I mean more along the lines of, having more disposable income than others, but people knowing that too, and thats not to say that I am frivolous. But maybe what is not showy to me is showy to others. What some people see as not necessary and frivolous, well, to me of course its necesary. But then I have friends who spend a fortune on something that I see as completely excessive and frivolous. Its all relative. My necessities are anothers clutter, and vice versa. I shop at discount stores but I also shop at expensive stores, it depends on what Im looking for. When I received this information of how my friend felt, I was really bothered, she said, it was nothing I did, it was what I could do. How do you react to that?
I agree that this is a good thread. Thanks to everyone for taking part